In his book, "Standing for Something," Gordon B. Hinckley writes, "We need
a new emphasis on honesty, character, and integrity. As we build into the
fiber of our individual lives the virtues that are the essence of true
civilization, so will the pattern of our times change. The question that
confronts us is: Where shall we begin?" He then proposes a return to ten
neglected virtues that will heal our hearts and homes.
1. Love
Love is the only force that can erase the difference between people or
bridge the chasms of bitterness. Love is like the Polar Star. In a changing
world, it is a constant. It is the security of the home. It is a beacon of
hope in a world of distress.
2. Honesty
Men and women of integrity understand intrinsically that theirs is the
precious right to hold their heads in the sunlight of truth, unashamed
before anyone.
3. Morality
Both experience and divine wisdom dictate that moral virtue and cleanliness
pave the way that leads to strength of character, peace of mind and heart,
and happiness in life.
4. Civility
Civility carries with it the essence of courtesy, politeness, and
consideration of others. All of the education and accomplishments in the
world will not count for much unless they are accompanied by marks of
gentility, of respect for others, of going the extra mile.
5. Learning
No matter how old we become, we can acquire knowledge and use it. We can
gather wisdom and profit from it. We can grow and progress and improve,
and, in the process, strengthen the lives of those within our circle of
influence.
6. Forgiveness and Mercy
The willingness to forgive is a sign of spiritual and emotional maturity.
Imagine a world filled with individuals willing both to apologize and to
accept an apology. Is there any problem that could not be solved among
people who possessed the humility and largeness of spirit and soul to do
either ? or both ? when needed?
7. Thrift and Industry
I commend to all the virtues of industry and thrift, which I believe go
hand in hand. The labor and thrift of the people make a nation, a
community, or a family strong. Work and thrift make the family independent.
8. Gratitude
Gratitude is the beginning of civility, of decency and goodness, of a
recognition that we cannot afford to be arrogant. We should walk with the
knowledge that we will need help every step of the way.
9. Optimism
My plea is that we stop seeking out the storms and enjoy more fully the
sunlight. I am suggesting that as we go through life, we "accentuate the
positive." I am asking that we look a little deeper for the good, that we
still our voices of insult and sarcasm, that we more generously compliment
and endorse virtue and effort.
10. Faith
Great buildings were never constructed on uncertain foundations. Great
causes were never brought to success by vacillating leaders. Faith has
always been, and always must be, at the root of any meaningful practice and
endeavor.
-- About the Submitter:
This piece was originally submitted by Wayne R. Bills, MA, a popular
speaker, consultant and coach, who can be reached at
wrbills@mindspring.com.
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