A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home
after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from
San Francisco. "Mom and Dad, I'm coming home, but I've
a favor to ask. I have a friend I'd like to bring home with
me."
"Sure," they replied, "we'd love to meet him."
"There's something you should know," the son continued,
"he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on
a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere
else to go, and I want him to come live with us."
"I'm sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find
somewhere to live."
"No, mom and dad, I want him to live with us."
"Son," said the father, "you don't know what you're
asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a
terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live,
and we can't let something like this interfere with
our lives. I think you should just come home and
forget about this guy. He'll find a way to live on his own."
At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents
heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however,
they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their
son had died after falling from a building, they were
told. The police believed it was suicide.
The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and
were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of
their son. They recognized him, but to their horror
they also discovered something they didn't know.
Their son had only one arm and one leg.
The parents in this story are like many of us. We find
it easy to love those who are good-looking or fun to
have around, but we don't like people who inconvenience
us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather
stay away from people who aren't as healthy, beautiful,
or smart as we are.
Thankfully, there's someone who won't treat us that
way. Someone who loves us with an unconditional love
that welcomes us into the forever family, regardless
of how messed up we are.
Tonight, before you tuck yourself in for the night, say
a little prayer that God will give you the strength you
need to accept people as they are, and to help us all
be more understanding of those who are different
from us.
-- Author Unknown